Waiting

Thats all there is left to do. Noelanis birthmom last had contact with the agency this past Friday. She said she would call monday (2 days ago) and set up a time to sign surrender this week. She stated on friday exactly what i had assumed. Life was overwhelming for her as a single mom of 4 girls returning to school.
They have left two messages with her this week and are going to be mailing a letter and stopping by. Since we have been through this with her before, while I am a bit concerned, I am not shocked.
With Noelani, as you all know, she was in care for nearly 3 months. The entire time, she would take on average 3 days to return calls. I dont know why. I hate to judge. But as humans i think its normal to think "what the hell could she not be calling back for?!"
We heard the intake report tonight. Her BM found out she was pregnant 3 months along. From day one she knew she would place this baby. That makes things a bit harder of a pill for me to swallow. She did nothing to plan placement.
On a brighter note, she was elated that we said we would adopt the baby and keep the girls together. She did not name the birthfather this time around. Many have asked. HOWEVER I did get a description of him in the intake letter. I believe it is the same birthfather as Noelani. I will not post details, but if it isn't, she was dating the same type of guy with the same profession.
Another good note is that the agency will accept our foster care homestudy - yay to saving $500!!!!!!!!!
Now all we need is for her to return the call.....which Antoine feels confident will happen shortly.